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	<title>Comments on: Flirt with Flair &#8211; How the pros do it online</title>
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	<description>Online Dating Advice... For The Rest of Us</description>
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		<title>By: Michael Blackwell</title>
		<link>http://www.intimatters.com/2009/05/flirt-with-flair-how-the-pros-do-it-online/comment-page-1/#comment-2678</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael Blackwell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Apr 2010 13:58:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If the English language has any influence (and it does) you must learn to spell. The first thing a lady will see is the words you type. This is your first impression to them so don&#039;t mess it up with dats instead of thats. Be a gentleman, or at the least, be polite. I already found my little woman at 4&#039; 11&quot; 115 lbs green eyes. To put it bluntly, simply gorgeous! I never used the word pussy, fuck, sex, slut, etc. etc..I am 9 years older so this was a great obstacle for me as I am not great looking, my job sucks, I could lose 10 pounds, and quite frankly I don&#039;t have a hell of alot going for me except that I know who I am and I know what they want. Good Luck fellas.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If the English language has any influence (and it does) you must learn to spell. The first thing a lady will see is the words you type. This is your first impression to them so don&#8217;t mess it up with dats instead of thats. Be a gentleman, or at the least, be polite. I already found my little woman at 4&#8242; 11&#8243; 115 lbs green eyes. To put it bluntly, simply gorgeous! I never used the word pussy, fuck, sex, slut, etc. etc..I am 9 years older so this was a great obstacle for me as I am not great looking, my job sucks, I could lose 10 pounds, and quite frankly I don&#8217;t have a hell of alot going for me except that I know who I am and I know what they want. Good Luck fellas.</p>
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		<title>By: Wolfie</title>
		<link>http://www.intimatters.com/2009/05/flirt-with-flair-how-the-pros-do-it-online/comment-page-1/#comment-2207</link>
		<dc:creator>Wolfie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 18:06:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>they have a point, i&#039;m more likely to talk to someone if they&#039;re nice about it rather than the &#039;let&#039;s fuck&#039; approach cus that just gets me thinking shit i&#039;m just another notch on the bedpost then? I dont mind that being true i just don&#039;t like it shoved in my face.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>they have a point, i&#8217;m more likely to talk to someone if they&#8217;re nice about it rather than the &#8216;let&#8217;s fuck&#8217; approach cus that just gets me thinking shit i&#8217;m just another notch on the bedpost then? I dont mind that being true i just don&#8217;t like it shoved in my face.</p>
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		<title>By: Bill Peck</title>
		<link>http://www.intimatters.com/2009/05/flirt-with-flair-how-the-pros-do-it-online/comment-page-1/#comment-2205</link>
		<dc:creator>Bill Peck</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 15:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sage advice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sage advice.</p>
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		<title>By: maddy</title>
		<link>http://www.intimatters.com/2009/05/flirt-with-flair-how-the-pros-do-it-online/comment-page-1/#comment-2103</link>
		<dc:creator>maddy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 19:36:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii sweeety</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii sweeety</p>
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		<title>By: Gone Futz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gone Futz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 17:45:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your &quot;job&quot; as a flirt (searching for an online chat, sexual partner, and even your spouse) is to respect them.  That means listening to their feelings, what they have to say and then responding empathetically.  Also, avoid yes or no questions. Ask open ended questions and again, listen to the response.

Easy for me to say, much harder to do.

I remain, yours truly, 

gonenuckingfutz</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your &#8220;job&#8221; as a flirt (searching for an online chat, sexual partner, and even your spouse) is to respect them.  That means listening to their feelings, what they have to say and then responding empathetically.  Also, avoid yes or no questions. Ask open ended questions and again, listen to the response.</p>
<p>Easy for me to say, much harder to do.</p>
<p>I remain, yours truly, </p>
<p>gonenuckingfutz</p>
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		<title>By: Tim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 23:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well the reason alot of us are on here cuase in real life we don&#039;t do well either.  So I&#039;m on here trying to do something different than real life and in real life I am polite nice and considerate, which i also have done the same on this site and i don&#039;t get any responses. got to be doing something wrong just dont know what it is.  starting to think nice guys really do finish last.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well the reason alot of us are on here cuase in real life we don&#8217;t do well either.  So I&#8217;m on here trying to do something different than real life and in real life I am polite nice and considerate, which i also have done the same on this site and i don&#8217;t get any responses. got to be doing something wrong just dont know what it is.  starting to think nice guys really do finish last.</p>
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		<title>By: hardguy333333</title>
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		<dc:creator>hardguy333333</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 18:22:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Hey baby, wanna fuck?&quot;  Rofl.  I love that one.  It shows that I am a sensitive guy and that I care about what you think and your feelings.  I&#039;m not changing for anyone.  Roflmao.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Hey baby, wanna fuck?&#8221;  Rofl.  I love that one.  It shows that I am a sensitive guy and that I care about what you think and your feelings.  I&#8217;m not changing for anyone.  Roflmao.</p>
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		<title>By: iqoei</title>
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		<dc:creator>iqoei</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 15:37:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeaa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeaa</p>
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		<title>By: AmyTheEditor</title>
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		<dc:creator>AmyTheEditor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Dec 2009 21:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dan,
I don&#039;t know what your emails said to them, but 3 out of 30 responses, at least some kind of response, is really pretty good. You have to remember that these women are just like you and have their choice of tons of men, so you have to ask yourself how good were your emails to them? What was the subject line of your emails? Or the actual content of your emails? Was it original, would it grab their attention. My guess it was the same as the hundreds of other emails they get from men on the site. So you need to make yourself standout - be funny, be witty, and keep trying.  
Amy The Editor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dan,<br />
I don&#8217;t know what your emails said to them, but 3 out of 30 responses, at least some kind of response, is really pretty good. You have to remember that these women are just like you and have their choice of tons of men, so you have to ask yourself how good were your emails to them? What was the subject line of your emails? Or the actual content of your emails? Was it original, would it grab their attention. My guess it was the same as the hundreds of other emails they get from men on the site. So you need to make yourself standout &#8211; be funny, be witty, and keep trying.<br />
Amy The Editor.</p>
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		<title>By: jitendra karki</title>
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		<dc:creator>jitendra karki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Dec 2009 16:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeah i just want to touch by screen u want</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah i just want to touch by screen u want</p>
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