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Online Dating Advice… For The Rest of Us

Increase your online dating chances by mixing it up!

mix-it-upThe best way to energize your dating experience and meet new people is to lose your regular routine and try a mix of features you may never have used before. Try one or all of the following tips that will have you mixing and mingling with a whole new set of partners in no time:

Switch your Search: By changing the parameters of advanced searches, you’d be amazed at all the people you’ve never seen or noticed. If you’ve been searching for members in your area, broaden your search criteria to your country, or even the world! Don’t let age restrict your search either – try expanding the age range 5 or 10 years on either side and see how many result pages you get out of it. On XXXBlackBook, there are a ton of physical, sexual and lifestyle settings to play around with, so click on as many boxes as you can to see who pops up!

Get Featured: A relatively new addition to XXXBlackBook is Get Featured, which puts your profile front and center where members will be most exposed to it.  For a few bucks, your profile will stand out from the crowd by being placed on home, search and other members’ profile pages. It’s like putting your name in lights on the marquee! If you’re going to take advantage of this awesome feature, make sure you’re making the most of your prime real estate – have a picture and your profile filled out as it gives interested parties a chance to learn all about you.

Video Chat: Even if you don’t have a cam (or don’t want to go on cam) you can still be an active member in the XXXBlackBook Video Chatroom. With a wide variety of rooms to choose from, you’ll always find someone looking to chat you up. When you strike up a conversation with a sexy hottie, you can go off to your own private room for some one-on-one time. If you’re in the mood for cards, there’s a chair at the Texas Hold’em Strip Poker with your name on it!

Talk to me:  How do you make contact with members? Do you just send out emails, or do you stick to sending out flirts? Try this on for size – if you tend to send out emails, try chatting with members using the IM feature.  If you’re a flirting freak, send a saucy and personalized email. Why not ask them for a key to their private photo album, and don’t forget to send them a key to yours while you’re at it (a little tit for tat!).

Profile clutter:  When was the last time you updated your profile? Change it up with a new tag line, new photos or new information about yourself. Hell, you can even throw in a dirty limerick – just be sure it’s not the same old, same old stuff that’s been there for eons.  If you put effort into your profile, it really will pay off. You can even do something as simple as rotating your profile picture with one in your photo album – it will change the look of you entire profile and tempt others to go deeper into it.

Upload a video:  There’s a whole community of members who are addicted to watching amateur videos on our site, and there’s no reason why you can’t get involved. When someone watches your movie, a link to your profile is also shown, so they can go behind the scenes to get to know the director and stars, and if they become fans, will watch and comment on other videos you’ve posted. And, if your video gets picked as XXXBlackBook‘s Video of the Week, hundreds of thousands will watch and comment on it – and you can use those comments as a jumping off point to introduce yourself!

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